
UPCOMING Programs
June Queer Quest 2 - Rite of Passage Program for the LGBTQ2S+ Community (Full with Waitlist)
The natural world reminds us that being Queer* is both beautiful and something to be celebrated! Showing up as who we are, and with our many gifts, is a celebration of nature’s diversity and honors our deep connection to the natural world.

BIPOC Mirroring Training: Reflecting BIPOC Stories through Nature and Belonging
Gathering with a supportive group of BIPOC Guides is an opportunity to feel deep connection and belonging with each other and nature. Nature both reflects and celebrates the full spectrum of our intersecting identities. Sharing our stories and receiving mirroring can transform trauma and separation into healing and liberation.

2 Week Rite of Passage Guide Training (Full)
This training gives the student an immersion in guiding nature-based rite of passage ceremony, including the skills involved in leading the ceremony and an understanding of how the principles can be applied to a profession, community, or client.

Fall Rite of Passage -Program for adults
As the leaves change, a different way of life is tugging at your heart. A new story is begging to be told. And your gifts are longing to be shared with the world. Join us to savor solo time on the land and to celebate within community.

Mirroring Training: The Art of Story Telling and Listening - Australia (Full with waitlist)
Telling your story is an ancient art. These days, we have mostly forgotten how to listen and how to tell our own story, yet our very survival depends on our ability to communicate by telling and listening to stories. If we cannot tell our story with passion, our life is mute. If we cannot listen like a mirror, we cannot reflect back the wholeness of the story teller.

Fall Rite of Passage -Program for adults (1 spot open)
As the leaves change, a different way of life is tugging at your heart. A new story is begging to be told. And your gifts are longing to be shared with the world.

BIPOC Mirroring Training: Reflecting BIPOC Stories through Nature and Belonging (Full with waitlist)
Gathering with a supportive group of BIPOC Guides is an opportunity to feel deep connection and belonging with each other and nature. Nature both reflects and celebrates the full spectrum of our intersecting identities. Sharing our stories and receiving mirroring can transform trauma and separation into healing and liberation.

Rite of Passage for Men
In a world where patriarchy has created real and lasting harm to others and the earth, how can a man be sensitive and compassionate yet have a strong voice and presence that leaves room and space for the voices and presence of others?

Queer Quest 2- Rite of Passage Program for the LGBTQ2S+ Community (Full With Waitlist)
The natural world reminds us that being Queer* is both beautiful and something to be celebrated! Showing up as who we are, and with our many gifts, is a celebration of nature’s diversity and honors our deep connection to the natural world.
Queer Quest - Rite of Passage Program for the LGBTQ2S+ Community (Full with waitlist)
The natural world reminds us that being Queer* is both beautiful and something to be celebrated! Showing up as who we are, and with our many gifts, is a celebration of nature’s diversity and honors our deep connection to the natural world.

Queer Mirroring Training: Reflecting Queerness in the Natural World (Full with waitlist)
Telling your story is a sacred art. As queer folx we have often been told that we are not natural and yet nature both reflects and celebrates the full spectrum of our identities. Sharing our stories and receiving mirroring can transform burdens into liberation and celebration.

Fall Rite of Passage -Program for adults (Full with Waitlist)
As the leaves change, a different way of life is tugging at your heart. A new story is begging to be told. And your gifts are longing to be shared with the world. Marking life passages allows you to release what no longer serves you and fully embrace all of who you are. Join us for a transformative rite of passage program amongst the stunning Fall aspen leaves in the Colorado Rocky Mountains.

2 Week Rite of Passage Guide Training (Full)
This training gives the student an immersion in the vision fast ceremony, including the skills involved in leading the vision fast and an understanding of how the principles of the vision fast can be applied to a profession, community, or client.

Wilderness Rite of Passage Guide Training for Black, Indigenous, & People of Color (Full with waitlist)
This program is open to all who identify as Black, Indigenous, & People of Color (BIPOC). Wilderness Rites of Passage have been practiced in cultures around the world as a way to celebrate and transition from one phase of life to the next - to leave behind what no longer serves and step into life as it is now.
June Queer Quest - Rite of Passage Program for the LGBTQ2S+ Community (Full with waitlist)
The natural world reminds us that being Queer* is both beautiful and something to be celebrated! Showing up as who we are, and with our many gifts, is a celebration of nature’s diversity and honors our deep connection to the natural world.

Queer Mirroring Training: Reflecting Queerness in the Natural World (Full with waitlist)
Telling your story is a sacred art. As queer folx we have often been told that we are not natural and yet nature both reflects and celebrates the full spectrum of our identities. Sharing our stories and receiving mirroring can transform burdens into liberation and celebration. It is time to show up and be seen in our fullness to celebrate the value our unique identities bring to the world!

Australia Wilderness Rites of Passage Guide Training (full with waitlist)
This experiential training will support you in learning the bare bones of this ancient and yet modern ceremony. You will learn how to prepare and support people in creating meaningful and powerful wilderness rites of passage.

October Rite of Passage -Program for adults (FULl with waitlist)
Fall is upon us, full of its hearty compost and harvests. Just as the seasons turn around us, the seasons of our lives turn with them. These changes are reflected as crimson leaves, new dreams, and expanding visions. Marking life passages allows you to release what no longer serves you and fully embrace all of who you are. Join us for a transformative rite of passage program amongst the stunning Fall aspen leaves in the Colorado Rocky Mountains.

September Rite of Passage -Program for adults (One spot now open)
As the leaves change, a different way of life is tugging at your heart. A new story is begging to be told. And your gifts are longing to be shared with the world. Marking life passages allows you to release what no longer serves you and fully embrace all of who you are. Join us for a transformative rite of passage program amongst the stunning Fall aspen leaves in the Colorado Rocky Mountains.
June Queer Quest - Rite of Passage Program for the LGBTQ+ Community (Full with waitlist)
The natural world reminds us that being Queer* is both beautiful and something to be celebrated! Showing up as who we are, and with our many gifts, is a celebration of nature’s diversity and honors our deep connection to the natural world.

Queer Mirroring Training: Reflecting Queerness in the Natural World (Full with waitlist)
Telling your story is a sacred art. As queer folx we have often been told that we are not natural and yet nature both reflects and celebrates the full spectrum of our identities. Sharing our stories and receiving mirroring can transform burdens into liberation and celebration. It is time to show up and be seen in our fullness to celebrate the value our unique identities bring to the world!

Three Week Rite of Passage Guide Training (Full with waitlist)
Wilderness Rites of Passage have been practiced in cultures around the world as a way to celebrate and transition from one phase of life to the next - to leave behind what no longer serves and step into life as it is now. These can be developmental phases of life, like moving from adolescence to adulthood, or the many other transitions we face throughout our lives. In this modern day, there is great value in returning to wild places to remind us humans that we are deeply connected to and part of nature.

Personal or Small Group Retreat (Full)
Choose to stay 2 or more nights during our retreat dates!
If you are longing for expansive space away from your daily life, where you can be surrounded by nature, be held by the mountains and wild beings of the land, then a Wild Mountain Personal or Small Group Retreat may be right for you.

Summer Fast - Rite of Passage Program for Adults (Full with waitlist)
How do we navigate these difficult and changing times? How can we hold both the grief and the opportunities offered by all these changes? Spending time alone in a wild place on the earth can help you come to a place of balance amidst the uncertainty of the world. It will revive something deep in your bones- a call that part of you has been longing to answer.

Wilderness Rite of Passage Guide Training for Black, Indigenous, & People of Color
This program is open to all who identify as Black, Indigenous, & People of Color (BIPOC). Wilderness Rites of Passage have been practiced in cultures around the world as a way to celebrate and transition from one phase of life to the next - to leave behind what no longer serves and step into life as it is now.
Queer Quest - Rite of Passage Program for the LGBTQ+ Community (Full with Waitlist)
The natural world reminds us that being Queer* is both beautiful and something to be celebrated! Showing up as who we are, and with our many gifts, is a celebration of nature’s diversity and honors our deep connection to the natural world.

Personal or Small Group Retreat
Choose to stay 2 or more nights during our retreat dates!
If you are longing for expansive space away from your daily life, where you can be surrounded by nature, be held by the mountains and wild beings of the land, then a Wild Mountain Personal or Small Group Retreat may be right for you.

Personal or Small Group Retreat
Choose to stay 2 or more nights during our retreat dates!
If you are longing for expansive space away from your daily life, where you can be surrounded by nature, be held by the mountains and wild beings of the land, then a Wild Mountain Personal or Small Group Retreat may be right for you.

2 Week Rite of Passage Guide Training (full)
This training gives the student an immersion in the vision fast ceremony, including the skills involved in leading the vision fast and an understanding of how the principles of the vision fast can be applied to a profession, community, or client.

Summer Fast - Rite of Passage Program for Adults (Full)
The call of the earth is getting louder! The Coronavirus pandemic has upended much of our lives, ecological stress we see in wildfires, flooding, can all leave you feeling helpless, frightened and stuck. Working from home or being an ‘essential’ worker and can rob our lives of meaning and purpose. These times are calling all of us back to a place of deep grounding in ourselves and on the earth. How do we navigate these difficult and changing times?
Australia Wilderness Rites of Passage Guide Training (Full) *POSTPONED
Wilderness Rites of Passage Guide Training ~ Lima East, in the foothills of the Strathbogie Ranges, Victoria, Australia
Wilderness Rites of Passage have been practiced in cultures around the world as a way to celebrate and transition from one phase of life to the next - to leave behind what no longer serves and step into life as it is now. These can be developmental phases of life, like moving from adolescence to adulthood, or the many other transitions we face throughout our lives. In this modern day, there is much value in returning to wild places to remind us that as humans we are deeply connected to and part of nature. Just as the seasons shift, we too have profound changes in our lives that are calling out to be recognized through ceremony and marked with clear intention. We are able to see ourselves and be seen in profound and accepting ways when we are witnessed by others as well as mirrored by the natural world.
This experiential training will support you in learning the bare bones of this ancient and yet modern ceremony. You will learn how to prepare and support people in creating meaningful and powerful wilderness rites of passage and incorporate the experience back into the community. This training is taught by Ruth Wharton and Pedro McMillan who bring with them decades of guiding and training experience through the School of Lost Borders, a nonprofit organization dedicated to reintroducing Rites of Passage around the world for more than 40 years.
This training will experientially teach you how to guide Wilderness Rites of Passage with specific focus on the following topics:
Council Practices and Creating a Safe and Inclusive Container
4 Shields of Human Nature Teaching*Screening and Preparation of participants*Intention Setting
Physical and Emotional Safety*Self Generated Ceremony*Cultural Appropriation*4 Day and Night Solo*Story Mirroring and Storytelling*Incorporation of the Experience*Various Applications of these Practices with Various Populations
Continued Mentoring and Support
Dates: April 4-19, 2020. Please plan to arrive by 4pm on April 4th. We will plan to end no later than 3pm on April 19th.
Tuition: $1900 AUDConcession: $1400 AUD (some additional scholarships available)
Required Reading- ‘The Trail to the Sacred Mountain’ and ‘The Roaring of the Sacred River: The Wilderness Quest for Vision and Self Healing’. Both by Steven Foster and Meredith Little and available through Lost Borders Press- coyoteculture.com
Practical Preparations: Please be prepared to be self sufficient with your own gear and food. There will be a group kitchen available for use where you may cook individually or with other group members. Most days we will be together in council, so please bring a comfortable chair. An equipment list will be sent to you once you register.
Registration or Questions: Email Ruth at ruthwharton@yahoo.com.To secure a spot in the training a nonrefundable deposit of $500 AUD is required as well as submitting forms. You will also be asked to write a letter explaining why you are drawn to this training as well as what transitions or personal process you are currently facing.
Month Long Intensive (Full)
Month Long Intensive
Guides: Ruth Wharton, Joseph (Angelo) Lazenka, Petra Lentz-Snow, Pedro McMillan, Ramon Parish, Darcy Ottey
Contact: ruth@lostborders.org
Who: This month-long intensive is designed for those who seek to explore and develop their vocation as wilderness guides within the tradition of the School and beyond. Here, participants are given the opportunity and mentorship to fully immerse themselves in the ceremonial and practical aspects of modern day wilderness rites of passage that have evolved throughout our years of practice and have been passed down through the teaching of our elders. It is a beneficial training for those who plan to work with either adults or youth, and who desire to gain a solid foundation in the Vision Fast ceremony.
Since 2010 we have expanded the comprehensiveness of this training while maintaining its grounded, experiential base. Covering a wide range of relevant themes throughout the month, the essence of the teaching will emerge from our relationships with the soul and body of the land, where the eternal wisdom of pan-cultural rites of passage arises, reflecting the underlying wisdom and dynamism of all life.
Logistics: The group will camp together for a month in the heights of the beautiful Rocky Mountains surrounded by high mountain vistas, meadows abundant with wildflowers, Aspen groves, and the wild creatures who call this place home. We will blend as a community of diverse individuals as well as entering the community of this wild land. Most afternoons will be spent in focused and ceremonial solo time, experientially exploring the themes of the day. The apprentice-trainee must play two roles: that of initiate and that of field therapist, naïve participant and knowing professional. The experiences of daily initiatory activity in the wilderness will inform and illumine the subject matter of the teaching.
Trainees will have the opportunity to learn from a rotating team of highly experienced guides and teachers from Lost Borders throughout the month, culminating in a four-day personal vision fast.
Topics will include but not be limited to:
the theory and foundations of rites of passage and their pan-cultural universality
the four shields of human nature
the nature of self-generated ceremony and the role of threshold-crossing
the place of nature in ecotherapy
nature as mirror and the practice of “mirroring” stories
council practice
providing a safe and inclusive container to diverse individuals and communities
dynamics of power and privilege in guiding
cultural misappropriation
empowerment in the elder’s council
rites of passage as dying practice
what a guide is and is not
the dynamics of fasting and use of “taboos”
specific practices such as the Death Lodge, Purpose Circle, and other pan-culturalsymbols and practices
the screening and preparation of candidates
shaping and honing of intent as a foundation for threshold experiences
maintaining a candidate’s physical/psychological/mental/spiritual safety
variations on traditional models of wilderness vision fasts (such as one-day formats and the use of nearby natural areas)
working with youth, elders, and special populations, and
the all-important topic of incorporation and appropriateness of this work to the challenges of our world today
Mirroring the Four Shields of Human Nature: The Art of Story Telling and Listening - Australia
Mirroring the Four Shields of Human Nature: The Art of Story Telling and Listening ~ Fryerstown, Victoria, Australia
Telling your story is an ancient art. These days, we have mostly forgotten how to listen and how to tell our own story, yet our very survival depends on our ability to communicate by telling and listening to stories. If we cannot tell our story with passion, our life is mute. If we cannot listen like a mirror, we cannot reflect back the wholeness of the story teller. In this program, you will learn to listen and tell from the four shields -- the body, soul, mind, and spirit. You will see that human nature is not separate from the cycles and seasons of the natural world and that there is a synchronistic dance between us and nature.
In the old days, stories came from the land itself. We will practice this ancient art by going intentionally onto the land alone. This intentional practice, and the deep listening that follows, naturally leads us to the wisdom to go beyond ourselves. Those of us who work with people must know how to listen and respond to the stories our people and the natural world tell. This way of mirroring can support us all to create a life that is deeper, richer, and that benefits our community and the earth.
During this week you will experience deep connection to the land and find your own unique way in the art of listening and mirroring. This is a powerful individual and collective experience that will deeply and positively affect your soul and the work you bring to the world!
ENROLLMENT/QUESTIONS: Contact Ruth at ruthwharton@yahoo.com
LOGISTICS: We will meet together at Fryers Forest, on beautiful private land, surrounded by State Forest with abundant and spectacular wildlife. The land will become our greatest mirror. Mornings will be taken up with meetings, afternoons with solitary time in the surrounding wilderness. In the evenings, we will tell, listen to, and mirror stories.
LOCATION/ ACCOMIDATIONS: Fryers Forest is located 1.5 hours NW of Melbourne. We will be camping together on the land. Please bring your own gear and food for the program and be prepared to be self-sufficient. A basic kitchen will be available for your use.
Tuition: $800-$1400 AUD sliding scale (scholarships available)
Camping Fee: $75 AUD
Deposit: $300 AUD to reserve space
GUIDES:
Ruth Wharton: An experienced wilderness guide, mentor, and professional counselor. Ruth has worked extensively with people of all ages in wilderness, residential, and therapeutic settings. She been a guide and teacher at the School of Lost Borders (schooloflostborders.org) for over 18 years and is deeply committed to re-introducing rites of passage into the world. This woman passionately weaves the mirror of nature through the world around her.
Pedro McMillan: Pedro is the father of two grown children and has been an environmentalist since childhood. An early eco-entrepaneur, he founded and ran a green business for 26 years until selling it in 2016 to focus on rites of passage work. A veteran of many fasts since 1996 he trained and assisted with several programs at the School of Lost Borders before stepping into the role of guide in 2010. He brings a wealth of experience and a poetic and passionate heart to this work.
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